Hillside Counseling

Experience Deeper Healing with Brainspotting Therapy in Michigan

Adult sitting quietly in soft natural light, representing internal focus and nervous system processing during Brainspotting therapy in Michigan
Adult sitting quietly in soft natural light, representing internal focus and nervous system processing during Brainspotting therapy in Michigan

Healing is more than just a cognitive process. You may “understand” your history or patterns, yet still feel stuck in the same emotional pain. For adults in Ann Arbor, Royal Oak, Birmingham, and throughout Michigan, Brainspotting therapy offers a way to move past the limits of traditional talk therapy.

As a specialized Somatic and Brainspotting therapist in Michigan, I help you access the deeper layers of your nervous system where trauma, overwhelm, and chronic activation are held. This body-based method is gentle, grounded, and deeply experiential—allowing you to process what words alone often can’t reach.

I provide online Brainspotting sessions to clients across the state, offering a safe, attuned space for those who are ready for a more embodied approach to trauma recovery.

What Is Brainspotting?

A Simple, Grounded Explanation

Brainspotting is a therapy method that helps you access and process emotions, sensations, and memories that are stored below conscious thinking. Instead of trying to “talk your way through” something painful or overwhelming, we locate a point in your visual field — a brainspot — that corresponds with what your body is holding.

While you focus gently on that point, we track what happens in your internal experience: sensations, feelings, shifts, movements, waves of emotion, or periods of spaciousness. This creates a pathway for your nervous system to process stuck emotional material in a way that feels organic, intuitive, and deeply internal.

It’s not hypnosis, not visualization, and not suggestion. You remain fully aware, grounded, and in control the entire time.

Where Brainspotting Came From (and Why Trauma Therapists Use It)

Brainspotting was developed by David Grand, PhD, a clinician who worked extensively with trauma survivors, performers, and people experiencing somatic symptoms that didn’t shift through talk therapy alone. While providing EMDR, he noticed that where clients looked changed what they felt — and that maintaining eye positions while attuning to the client allowed deeper, more efficient processing.

This observation grew into Brainspotting, which is now integrated widely by trauma therapists, somatic practitioners, and clinicians who work with overwhelm, dissociation, performance blocks, and emotional pain.

While Brainspotting is still developing its research base, it is not fringe or unsupported.
It is rooted in:

  • Attuned relational therapy
  • Somatic psychology
  • The neuroscience of subcortical processing
  • The window of tolerance model
  • Clinical patterns observed across thousands of sessions


Brainspotting is used internationally by licensed psychotherapists, psychologists, social workers, counselors, and trauma specialists because many clients experience meaningful shifts using this method.

It is not magic. It is not a shortcut.
It is a way of accessing emotional material that talking alone often can’t reach.

Its Connection to EMDR, Somatic Therapy, and Attunement-Based Work

Brainspotting didn’t appear in a vacuum. Its foundations overlap with:

  • EMDR’s awareness of bilateral stimulation and eye positions
  • Somatic therapies that track bodily experience
  • Attachment-based approaches emphasizing co-regulation
  • Neuroscience-informed models of trauma processing


The difference is that Brainspotting is slower, more attuned, less scripted, and less directive. You’re not being “guided through steps” — we’re following your system’s natural intelligence.

How Brainspotting Works in Online Therapy

Brainspotting works extremely well online. We use:

  • Your webcam
  • A pointer you already have (finger, pen, chopstick)
  • Eye positions we explore together
  • Attuned, moment-to-moment tracking of your nervous system


Many people find online Brainspotting even safer because they’re in their own environment and can settle more easily.

Why Brainspotting Helps When You Feel Stuck

Nature scene symbolizing emotional release and nervous system regulation often supported through Brainspotting therapy

When the Body Holds What the Mind Can’t Articulate

Some experiences never fully translate into words.
Your body may be holding:

  • Tension
  • Bracing
  • Numbness
  • Shutting down
  • Chronic anxiety
  • Immobility
  • Emotional “freeze” states


Brainspotting helps you access these layers in a way that feels grounded and tolerable — without needing to relive anything or “retell the whole story.”

The Role of the Midbrain and Subcortical Processing

Brainspotting targets parts of the brain involved in:

  • Survival responses
  • Emotional regulation
  • Sensory processing
  • Internal movement and “felt sense”
  • Implicit memory


This is why Brainspotting can reach places that cognitive therapy doesn’t: it works with the areas responsible for how you feel, not just what you think.

Trauma, Overwhelm, and Emotional Blocks

When something overwhelming happens, the nervous system sometimes stores it in a fragmented or incomplete way. Brainspotting helps you gently re-access that stuck activation so your system can metabolize it.

This isn’t catharsis. It’s not dramatic.
Most sessions look and feel quiet, internal, and deeply present.

Why Brainspotting Often Feels Different Than Talk Therapy

Most clients say it feels like:

  • Dropping into a deeper layer
  • Feeling internal shifts without needing to explain them
  • Noticing sensations or emotions that were previously inaccessible
  • A quiet but powerful release of something long-held


Many people describe a sense of clarity, ease, or emotional relief afterward — but the work never forces anything. Your system leads.

The Credibility of Brainspotting

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Developed by a Psychotherapist and Refined Through Trauma Work

Brainspotting was created through careful clinical observation, not theory alone. Dr. Grand refined the method across thousands of sessions with trauma survivors, performers, athletes, and people struggling with dissociation, anxiety, and somatic symptoms.

It is grounded in the same trauma-informed principles that guide the rest of contemporary therapy.

Based on Principles Shared with EMDR, Somatic Therapy, and Attachment-Focused Therapy

Brainspotting is aligned with well-established therapeutic concepts, including:

  • The window of tolerance
  • Attunement and co-regulation
  • Dual awareness
  • Bottom-up processing
  • The role of eye position and orientation in emotional states


It is a method used within therapy, not separate from it.

Increasing Research Interest and Growing Clinician Adoption

Its research base is expanding through peer-reviewed studies and university partnerships. While Brainspotting is newer than EMDR or CBT, its research base is expanding through:

  • Peer-reviewed studies
  • University partnerships
  • Clinical reports
  • Trauma-focused conferences


It is not presented as a finalized or perfect model — but it is respected, evolving, and widely integrated by clinicians seeking trauma-responsive tools.

Why Many Licensed Therapists Integrate It Into Trauma Treatment

Therapists use Brainspotting because clients often experience access, movement, and emotional shifts that weren’t reachable through talking alone.

It supports:

  • Deep internal processing
  • Nervous system settling
  • Integration
  • Release of long-held emotional energy


It is one tool among many — not a miracle cure, and not a replacement for attuned relational work.

What Brainspotting Does Not Claim to Be

Brainspotting is not:

  • A guarantee of specific outcomes
  • A replacement for medical treatment
  • A crisis intervention
  • A fast fix
  • A “one-size-fits-all” method


It is a clinically grounded approach that helps many people access deeper emotional terrain, but it respects the complexity of the healing process.

What Brainspotting Can Support

Brainspotting is especially helpful when emotional pain, stress, or patterns feel stored in the body rather than accessible through words alone. While every person’s experience is different, many adults find Brainspotting supportive for the following concerns.

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Trauma & Complex Trauma

Trauma does not only live in memory. It often shows up as tension, hypervigilance, emotional reactivity, shutdown, or a persistent sense that something is “not quite right.”

Brainspotting can support people with:

  • Childhood trauma
  • Relational and attachment wounds
  • Emotional neglect
  • Shock trauma
  • Chronic overwhelm
  • Long-term patterns shaped by survival responses


It supports the body’s natural drive toward completion, integration, and relief. Because Brainspotting works below conscious narrative, it can be especially helpful when trauma feels hard to explain, pre-verbal, or emotionally diffuse. The work unfolds at a pace your nervous system can tolerate, without forcing recall or re-experiencing. Learn more about trauma.

Anxiety & Activation

Anxiety often isn’t just a thought problem. It can be a full-body state of readiness, bracing, or scanning for threat. Many people with anxiety live in a persistent “on edge” state.

Brainspotting may help with:

  • Racing thoughts
  • Tension
  • Internal restlessness
  • Hypervigilance
  • Cycles of worry
  • Tightness in the chest, shoulders, or gut


It gives your system space to settle. By working directly with the nervous system, Brainspotting can help reduce the underlying activation that fuels anxious patterns, not just the thoughts that accompany them. Learn more about anxiety.

Emotional Numbness & Freeze

Freeze isn’t a flaw — it’s a protection. Brainspotting helps thaw out these states gently, without pushing past your capacity. Numbness, shutdown, and dissociation are protective responses, not failures. They often develop when emotions were once too overwhelming or unsafe to feel.

Brainspotting offers a gentle way to work with:

  • Feeling emotionally flat or disconnected
  • Difficulty accessing feelings
  • Freeze responses
  • A sense of being “shut down” or distant from yourself


The work is slow and titrated, allowing sensation and emotion to return gradually, without flooding or pressure. Learn more about emotional shutdown.

Feeling “Blocked” or Stuck

Some people are highly insightful, self-aware, and capable — yet still feel stuck in the same emotional loops. They may understand why they feel the way they do but can’t seem to move through it.

Brainspotting can support:

  • Emotional blocks
  • Repeating patterns that don’t shift with insight alone
  • A sense of being held back internally
  • Feeling disconnected from motivation or clarity


This work helps bridge the gap between knowing and integrating. If you’re someone who is successful, capable, or highly self-aware but still feels trapped in emotional patterns, Brainspotting can help access layers that aren’t reachable through intellectual insight alone.

Creative Expression & Performance

Because Brainspotting works with expressive and subcortical brain systems, it is sometimes used to support:

  • Performance anxiety
  • Creative blocks
  • Difficulty accessing emotional expression
  • Fear responses tied to visibility or evaluation


Rather than “pushing through,” Brainspotting helps identify and resolve the nervous system responses that interfere with expression and presence.

What a Brainspotting Session Looks Like

Quiet telehealth therapy setup representing online Brainspotting sessions for adults across Michigan

Brainspotting sessions are quiet, relational, and deeply attuned. They are not about performing, explaining, or pushing yourself to feel something dramatic. The work unfolds from the inside out, guided by your nervous system and supported through steady, grounded presence.

Sessions are offered through secure video and are designed to feel contained, safe, and human — even online.

Slowing Down and Settling Your System

We begin by helping your system arrive. There is no rush, no pressure, and no expectation that you come in knowing exactly what to talk about. You don’t need to retell your story or revisit details unless it feels helpful.

We start with what is present for you in the moment — a sensation, an emotion, a sense of stuckness, or even a vague discomfort. From there, we allow your body to settle into a slower, more regulated state where deeper processing can happen.

Finding a Brainspot and Tracking Your Internal Experience

Once we identify what you want to work with, we explore your visual field together. Using a simple pointer, we notice where your system responds — where activation, emotion, or a sense of “dropping in” occurs.

Together we:

  • Identify what you want to work on
  • Explore your visual field
  • Notice where your system “activates” or “drops in”
  • Maintain that eye position while following your internal process


I track your breath, body cues, micro-expressions, and emotional shifts — always with your consent and pace.

When we find a brainspot, you gently hold your gaze there while staying aware of what unfolds inside. This may include sensations, emotions, images, memories, shifts in breath, or periods of stillness. My role is to track your nervous system with you — noticing subtle cues, supporting regulation, and helping you stay connected to yourself throughout the process.

Staying Within the Window of Tolerance

Brainspotting is never about intensity for its own sake. We stay within your window of tolerance at all times. If something feels too much, we slow down, pause, or shift focus immediately.

You are always in control. You can open your eyes, change position, take a break, or stop entirely at any point. The goal is not to push through discomfort, but to support your system in processing what it is ready to process — no more, no less.

Why Attunement and Safety Matter More Than Technique

Brainspotting is not simply “staring at a spot.” What makes the work effective is the combination of:

  • Relational safety
  • Attuned presence
  • Co-regulation
  • Openness and non-judgement
  • Respect for your boundaries
  • Moment-to-moment responsiveness


The technique matters, but the relationship matters more. Healing happens when your system feels seen, supported, and not rushed.

My Approach to Brainspotting

Relational, Attachment-Focused, and Non-Pathologizing

Even though Brainspotting works with deep internal processes, therapy is still a relational experience. You are not doing this alone. I stay present, attuned, and engaged throughout the session, offering support without directing or controlling your process.

There is no expectation that you “do it right,” make progress quickly, or have a particular kind of experience. Your responses make sense in the context of your history and your nervous system.

Neurodivergence-Affirming and Trauma-Informed

I work with many clients who are neurodivergent, highly sensitive, analytical, or deeply perceptive. Brainspotting adapts well to different nervous systems, including those shaped by ADHD, autistic traits, sensory sensitivities, or complex trauma.

There is no single correct way to process. We follow what works for your system, not what a model expects.

Working at Your Pace, With Your Boundaries

You never have to go faster than feels safe. You never have to access memories or emotions you’re not ready for. Your boundaries are respected at every step.

We work collaboratively, adjusting pacing, depth, and focus based on what your system communicates in the moment.

Warm therapy space representing a relational, trauma-informed, and neurodivergence-affirming Brainspotting approach

Honoring Your System’s Wisdom and Capacity

Brainspotting is not about digging for answers or forcing breakthroughs. It’s about listening — carefully and compassionately — to the parts of you that have been working to keep you safe.

Your body already holds wisdom about how to heal. My role is to support that process, not override it.

Is Brainspotting Right for Me?

Questions to Explore

Brainspotting may be a good fit if you:

  • Feel stuck despite insight or self-awareness
  • Experience overwhelm, shutdown, or strong bodily reactions
  • Notice emotional patterns that don’t shift with talk therapy alone
  • Have trauma that feels vague, pre-verbal, or hard to describe
  • Want a deeper, more embodied approach to therapy

Who Tends to Benefit Most

Many people who benefit from Brainspotting describe themselves as:

  • Insightful but blocked
  • Emotionally aware yet disconnected from their body
  • High-functioning but internally overwhelmed
  • Sensitive, perceptive, or deeply feeling


Brainspotting can help bridge the gap between understanding and integration.

When Brainspotting May Not Be the Best Fit

Brainspotting may not be appropriate if:

  • You are in an active crisis
  • You need intensive stabilization or crisis support
  • You are seeking a highly structured, skills-based approach
  • You want immediate symptom elimination


We can always talk through what feels most supportive for where you are.

Scheduling and Fees

Online Therapy for Adults Across Michigan

Brainspotting sessions are offered exclusively through secure video for adults (18+) living anywhere in Michigan. Online therapy allows you to engage in deep emotional work from a space that already feels familiar and safe.

Self-Pay Model and Superbills

Hillside Counseling is a self-pay practice. I do not accept insurance, but I can provide superbills upon request for clients who wish to pursue out-of-network reimbursement.

This structure allows us to work without diagnosis-driven constraints and to prioritize depth, pacing, and relational care.

Free 15–20 Minute Consultation

If you’re unsure whether Brainspotting is right for you, we can talk it through. The consultation is a chance to ask questions, explore fit, and get a sense of how working together might feel.

There is no pressure to commit.

Start With a Free Consultation

What We Can Talk About

During a consultation, we can explore:

  • What’s bringing you to therapy
  • How your nervous system tends to respond to stress
  • Whether Brainspotting or another approach may be supportive
  • What safety and pacing look like for you


You don’t need to prepare anything or tell your whole story.

How to Decide if Brainspotting Feels Right for You

Finding the right therapist and approach is deeply personal. Brainspotting is one option — not the only one, and not always the first step. You get to decide what feels aligned with your needs and your capacity.

FAQs About Brainspotting

Does Brainspotting Work Online?

Yes. Many people find online Brainspotting even safer because they are in their own environment and can settle more naturally. The work translates well through video and remains deeply relational.

We slow down immediately. You are always in control, and we work within your window of tolerance. Safety and regulation matter more than processing speed.

Brainspotting is newer than some long-established approaches, but its research base continues to grow. It aligns with trauma neuroscience, somatic principles, and attachment-focused therapy, which is why many licensed clinicians integrate it into their work.

No preparation is needed. We begin with whatever feels present for you in the moment.

They share some roots, but Brainspotting is less structured and more attuned. EMDR follows set protocols, while Brainspotting follows your nervous system’s natural processing.